Starting a new career
path at sixty-seven years young is a bit “white-hair” raising, to say the
least! In some circles, my “mature” age makes people say things like, “She’s
washed up!” or “she’s over the hill!” – wait a minute… that is not true! God planned all along for me to journey
this route – giving me the love of words and a passion to help others.
There’s still a great
deal of “yes I can!” as opposed to “no I can’t!” – with so many baby boomers
headed down the retirement trail, more and more people are turning to a “second
life” career. Reinvention is a
buzz word used in silver and white-haired circles frequently.
My grandmother was
one of my important role models when I was growing up. She had to support herself and two
daughters as a single parent when it wasn’t considered a “normal”
lifestyle. The family apricot
ranch was parceled out and she handled her portion and provided for her family
as best she could. My great-grandparents
lived on the same property and were instrumental in assisting her in her
day-to-day life and the raising of the children. Divorced at a young age from my Irish Catholic grandfather,
she filed charges of “abandonment” and went about trying to improve her
family’s situation. My
grandfather, a World War I veteran must have been disillusioned about serving
in the United States military and trying to persuade his young protestant wife
that their children should be brought up Roman Catholic. He, evidently, hastened himself back to
Ireland and was never heard from again.
Single parents back
then were accepted if they were in the “widow” class. Being a “divorcee” was frowned upon, even in the case of
abandonment. She made it through
many financial and social challenges.
At the ripe age of sixty plus years, she found herself employed in a
print shop and made herself valuable as their assistant and “chief bean
counter.”
My mother, widowed at
fifty years old, followed in her mother’s oxfords! She had a background in journalism but at fifty, didn’t know
exactly if she could launch a writing career, so she got licensed in child
care. She did very well!
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